Kambakkht Ishq

Kambakkht Ishq !!!

Hey guys ! if you think it’s an review of the recent  bollywood flick, then i must say you are wrong. I m just trying to jot down few words from this ocean of Ishq(Love), in an attempt to learn what exactly it means. The things which i’ll be describing may not be accepted by everyone, but i am just writing my(Boyish) version of the story.

Just traverse back in time to the school days when it was just starting of teen age and beginning of Infatuation season. Girls looked angles to boys. Boys are all ready to do any thing for there lady love. Be it buying an ice cream or sharing his favorite pencil, attracting her with her latest wrist watch or a mobile video game. Guys never think what all they do just to get notice of his girl. If somebody is heard saying bad about her girl, bashed him in the sports field. Just go back into the past and think what all you have done similar to this. I guess you will recollect some memories. <Kambakkht Ishq>

Now moving ahead school is over, crazy college days. Now the girl in the class room is known not by her name but known like ” Hey See her Amit waali, sahi hai naa?”. College is the most common place when one gets infected with this disease of <Kambakkht Ishq>. All the efforts of parents from almost 20 years comes to an end. Willing to leave every thing for the one who they know for 20 weeks or 20 days. Have got no money to have a decent lunch but gift is more important. Semester exams are on the top of the head but have to make a 2-3 hour long good night phone call. Result few backlocks. College is getting over, just a cold bye from ” Tumhari Waali”. <Kambakkht Ishq>

Now getting into the real world, job, office, presentation, deadlines. Here also our macho boys are in the league to become extraordinary gentleman. Office work is a second priority but have to go for the latest movie with the lady of there life. Ratings, salary hardly matters the most important job is not missing a SALE. If have to wait late at night for office work it’s hectic but a 12:00 AM birthday cake is must. <Kambakkht Ishq>

Till now i am sure all of you might have got the idea why this is named  as Kambakkht Ishq.

Disclaimer: Any relation to dead or alive is completly intentional.
Note: No offences Meant.

Habit

Habit !!! what do i mean by this, a normal daily routine which all follow in day 2 day activity? Naa!!! HABIT here means when u have an habit of someones company. All through the day u do all the things 2geather, be it lunch, dinner, shopping etc. One gets the habit of being with someone all through the day. It can be anyone u’r best friend, u’r girlfriend, some teammate, anybody. It’s just by willingness or unwillingness somebody becomes such an essential part of u’r life that u regret the day when he is not with u.

Just imagine a situation when one of u’r closest friend as described above is not with u. This is the gravest day of u’r life, believe me. Just imagine a pizza hut, where u love 2 go, but u can’t dare 2 go there coz it would look aukward alone sitting in a pizza hut. An ice cream strore u visited most often, but now loneliness crawls here also. U want 2 have u’r favorite ice cream but can’t go inside coz, the memories of u’r friend would be haunting u and u dare not sit alone in that place.

Friends are most essential part of our life. We do not realize there importance till they go far away from us. I know all of us have been in such a situation in our life, it’s just that we fail to acknowledge the truth. So all of u reading this blog, please realize that the most important day of u’r life is today and the most important person is the one right now with u. Enjoy the present so that it can become a pleasant memory to cherish in the past. :)

Girls???

Why girls are so difficult to understand? I know this is a million dollar question for all boys. But believe me boys please do not ever get tempted to search an answer  to this question. To quote Shakespeare “All That Glitters Is Not Gold”, same is the case with all these fascinating girls you see around. They attract you with there charm, just casts a spell on you while passing by and makes sure you are totally spellbound. One who escape are lucky, who gets traped are dead. This is not a normal chewing gum that you chew and spit it off, after you have this gum then you realise that you have committed a sin. One can be forgiven for a mistake but you have to bear the consequences of committing a sin.

When you start any sort of relationship  with a girl, you enjoy your hay days,those unsaid words, a little bit of blushing etc. In the starting it tastes sweet as a chewing gum, but when the sweetener is off the gum, it is then you relalise the bitter taste of the gum. The later part of the relationship is very confusing for boys. There are only two options boys feel about himself in a relationship, that either he is a DOG or a DONKEY. Dog if he always rome around the girl as if she is her master, Donkey if he always do blindly whatever is said to him. But i feel it is actually a mixture of both and be combined and said as a DonkeyDog. I know many of us would agree to this if you seriously ask this question to yourself.

Now coming to the fun part. I would not call it actually a fun part, but if you can withstand those critical situations you will actually find yourself in a comic situation. Suppose a girl asks you for some advice say while shopping she says “How is this dress?”. You says its good, but in the next second she says no i like the other one and buys it. This would sound very simple, but when it happens repeatedly it is then you realise that does my advice really counts. When you realise this, the next time you face a similar situation you actually know the outcome of it and you also hardly bother. 

The above situation may look simple in-front of what i am going discuss now. A girl thinks as if you are a astrologer who can see the future or predict the mood of the girl. Suppose you call a girl and she is repetedly not answering the phone or the cell is switched of or she gives you a miss call etc, it can be anything, but will not be a clear communication. This is not a tought part, the painful part is when she says “You should know why i am doing this”. I just can’t digest how the hell boy will come to know the issue till the time you clarify things. 

After reading all this you can realise the fun part of it. I know it has been all, why girls? , but seriously speaking can’t help it. If any sensible girl is reading this would realise the trueness of this story. Please i am looking forward for your comments.

PJ of 6th Aug 2008

Q) what will you call ” Giraa hua aadmi” in english ?

A) Down to earth man.

Mobile Phones

Hey this is a very cool topic to write a blog on “Mobile Phones”. In this age of mail’s and SMS, i realy wonder that what would be life without these pocket size gadgets. Got to send a message any where across the world just do an SMS, and what is the price we give for it ? practically nothing !! These small devices has become a part of our life and has truly captured us. But just for a moment thing that for a day you have to be without your cell phones, just think! scarred ?  This is the thing these small electronic devices has introduced into us.

Lets just think who is most benefited coz of mobile phones ? First thoughts that come to my mind is love birds. Seriously speaking it has just came as a boon to the lover’s and to be the icing on the cake is the telecom companies. These companies has came up with such great offers such as night talks, some free calls etc. I have been in hostel and seen the guys talking to there frequent changing loved once for all night long. The head phone is on there ears and sometimes they too sleep with the thing on.

Now coming to the real benifit is in the bussiness prospective. Today any corporate office can’t be imagined without the employees having mobiles. Any issues can be delt over the phone. There is no bar as in where the person is or what is he doing, if he has a cell phone that’s enough.

Mobile phone has been such a revelation that it has grown in use exponentially. Be it a big commercial city or a small village the best means of communication is mobile phone. These things have moved one step forward. Its not just a communicating media but also a style statement. Every now and then new models are in the market. People are just spending money like anything to get the thing. But the question to be asked “Is the real purpose of the mobile getting affected by this?”.

But is this technology is as good as we see it. Today there are talks going that the radiations of this small device is having adverse affect on the human body. Not much scientific proof is out but this news has really seeded a doubt in the user mind. There are people who do not care for all this things as far as they are benefited by the technology, but are we heading for yet another man made trouble. This question is still on, but only time will tell what it has for us in the bag. But i m really optimistic about whatever may it be we can cope up with the issue.

So not to worry guys go ahead and enjoy this invention on man. Long live the “mobile”.

Jhansi

Jhansi is a place where i have spend much time of my life. It’s not a big city but has its own charm. I did my schooling from there and trust me i could not  have imagined a better place for my studies. When i was a kid, i always thought that it would be better for me to live with my relatives in mumbai. I often use to visit mumbai in my summer and winter vacations. It use to be fun there as my cousins were there and we had a great time. But later in my life i realised that jhansi is a much better place. It did not have the unwanted crowed, no pollution what so ever and have sufficient opportunities for the young lad.

Being there for so much time and spending the best time of my life there, i also have a personal liking for jhansi. The places in jhansi are awesome, to figure out the the best is a bit difficult as all are best in there own sense , be it sadar, my school ” cathedral”, the lovely orcha , the huge university etc. The enchanting jhansi just has its own glorly. It does not matter how big or small the place is but u just luv it when u’r beautiful memories at attached to it, be it “shrinath- pow bhaaji ” or the dosa center besides hotel rishab. The cool time we spend there with our frnds. To say in a nut shell, i just luv the place..

IPL

 The Indian Premier League(IPL) has been a huge success. IPL has been an revelation for indian cricket. Ever since this compressed format has came into picture, it has added new dimension to indian cricket. 10 Years ago nobody would have ever imagined this face of cricket. 

IPL has not only brought fame and money to this game, but has also brought into picture the unsung heros which would have never made it to the national team. It has given those would be young talent the platform to launch there career. Young players has also got the chance to prove themselves and show to the world what they are capable off.

The best part of IPL is the invaluable guidance that the young guys are getting from the legends of the game. They would have only saw them on the television, but now they are standing besides them getting the chance of there  lifetime to play with them. It’s really a boon for the young indian players that they are getting a chance to play under the lights of sachin,magrath,warne etc who have been the part of the game for so long. This sort of runtime coaching which the young lad is getting can never be compared to any level of practice.

Apart from the players perspective, me as a viewer enjoys it a lot. In india cricket is a religion, but the hectic fast life schedule leaves with no times whatsoever to watch a 5 day test match or an ODI. So this format has not only brought a better enjoyable version of cricket, but has also made people to come out of there houses in the evening, with there family, friends and enjoy a good 3 hours of exciting cricket.

Hope this newer version of cricket takes cricket to new hights. Cheers IPL.

Weekend

Hey guys weekend is comming , i have a whole lot of plans for it . After a long scheduled week comes a unmanaged weekend. We all try a different things to do in that, some would plan to party , some finish there personal work, some to enjoy with the family and some would rather prefer to sleep. But any ways i would like to party as always.

The smell of the weekend starts comming from the later half of the week. It’s mostly thursday that we start to dream about our lovely weekend. It seems us to be our friendly days of the week, where we are the king of our time.

I don’t know about you all but i usually divide my weekend in two halves. In the first half i complete my prsonal work and later i party , in the second half i usually prefer to sleep and just want to be a couch potato. Usually my plans do work for the weekend unless some unreal thing happen. What i believe is that it is this weekend that is driving force for me to work for the whole weekend.

Guys just wanna say that it’s not all about work. We are given this weekend to vent off and enjoy. So go out with your friends, family or your lover’s and give your self a break.  We always dream that all the days should be a weekend, but if it would be then the charm of the weekend would just fade off. So all you lovely people cheers for the weekend.

 

Monday

Monday !! An another day at the office. After a gud weekend comes monday . Monday is the most toughest day of the week. We have to get started for whole of the week. Make up our minds for yet another hectic week ahead but still in the sweet memories of the past weekend . If you have a gud party in the weekend then you are in half hang over state. But whatever we say monday has to come!!!

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